there are plenty of fish in the sea
Meaning
There are many other potential romantic partners available, so you shouldn’t be too upset about one rejection or breakup.
Origin
A proverb-like metaphor comparing potential partners to abundant fish in the ocean. It has been used in English for centuries to comfort people after romantic disappointment.
Notes
Usually a casual, reassuring line after rejection/breakups. Can sound dismissive of someone’s feelings if they’re deeply hurt, so use tact. Mostly conversational.
Examples
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I know it hurts right now, but there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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After the breakup, her friends reminded her that there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Don’t chase someone who won’t commit—there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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He didn’t get a second date, but he shrugged and said there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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If that job doesn’t work out, remember there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Fixed clause often used standalone. Word order is set: “There are plenty of fish in the sea.” Can vary tense (“There were...”) or add “other,” but core structure stays.
Synonyms
- there are other fish in the sea
- there are plenty more fish in the sea
- there are plenty of other people out there
- you’ll find someone else
Antonyms
- there’s no one else
- there aren’t many options
- slim pickings