the grass is always greener
Meaning
Other people’s situations seem better than your own, even if that isn’t really true.
Origin
From the proverb “The grass is always greener on the other side (of the fence),” recorded from at least the 16th century; a metaphor that a neighbor’s lawn looks better from a distance.
Notes
Often a gentle caution about envy or idealizing others; implies you may be overlooking downsides. Common in casual conversation and advice; can sound mildly dismissive if overused.
Examples
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He keeps thinking he should switch jobs, but the grass is always greener on the other side.
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I used to envy my friends' relationships until I realized the grass is always greener.
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Before you move to a new city, remember the grass is always greener—every place has its problems.
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She thought freelancing would be easier, but the grass is always greener and deadlines still pile up.
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He complains about our apartment and dreams of a bigger one; the grass is always greener.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Usually used as a full clause/proverb: “The grass is always greener (on the other side).” “Always” is typically kept; can be shortened or followed by “on the other side (of the fence).”
Synonyms
- the grass is always greener on the other side
- greener on the other side
- the neighbor’s grass is always greener
Antonyms
- count your blessings
- be content with what you have
- the grass isn’t greener (on the other side)