rain on your parade
Meaning
To spoil someone’s plans or enjoyment by being negative or bringing bad news.
Origin
From the idea of a celebratory parade being ruined by rain; by the mid-20th century it became a figurative way to describe spoiling someone’s excitement.
Notes
Often used as a mild complaint or apology (“Not to rain on your parade…”). Can sound accusatory if said directly to someone.
Examples
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I hate to rain on your parade, but the concert was just canceled.
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Don’t let one negative comment rain on your parade—you worked hard for this.
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She didn’t mean to rain on his parade; she just wanted him to know the risks.
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I’m not trying to rain on your parade, but we’re already over budget.
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The sudden storm really rained on our parade and forced us to end the picnic early.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Usually used as “rain on someone’s parade” (rain on my/your/his/her/their parade). Common mitigated form: “I don’t want to rain on your parade, but…”. Tense can change (rained/will rain).
Synonyms
- spoil the fun
- burst someone’s bubble
- put a damper on
- killjoy
Antonyms
- make someone’s day
- add to the celebration
- bring good news