play with fire
Meaning
To take a risky action that is likely to cause trouble or harm, especially by provoking a dangerous situation.
Origin
From the literal danger of handling fire for amusement; the metaphor warns that risky behavior can easily “burn” you. Recorded in English for centuries as a cautionary phrase.
Notes
Often used as a warning or mild criticism. Implies the person is courting danger and will likely suffer consequences. Common in conversation and writing; not very formal.
Examples
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If you lie to your boss again, you’re playing with fire.
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Leaving candles unattended is playing with fire.
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He’s playing with fire by driving that fast in the rain.
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Posting that rumor online is playing with fire—you could get sued.
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They’re playing with fire by cutting corners on safety checks.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Fixed phrase with verb: play/played/playing with fire. Often used with ‘be’ (You’re playing with fire) or as a gerund/noun phrase (Playing with fire is...). Article usually omitted.
Synonyms
- take a risk
- court danger
- flirt with danger
- tempt fate
- ask for trouble
Antonyms
- play it safe
- act cautiously
- be careful