no hard feelings
Meaning
There is no resentment or ill will toward someone after a disagreement or hurt; don't be upset about it.
Origin
Derived from the phrase 'hard feelings' (meaning resentment). 'No hard feelings' emerged in colloquial English (notably American) in the late 19thβearly 20th century to defuse disputes.
Notes
Neutral to casual tone. Used to defuse tension after mistakes or breakups. Not always appropriate for serious harm or legal disputes.
Examples
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No hard feelings β I understand why you had to cancel.
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I know I messed up, but I hope there are no hard feelings.
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We broke up months ago and there are no hard feelings between us.
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No hard feelings, okay? It was an honest mistake.
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He apologized and she said, 'No hard feelings.'
Grammar & Usage Notes
Fixed idiom; often used standalone or in clauses ('I hope there are no hard feelings'). No article; 'hard feelings' is plural. Can be used as a question: 'No hard feelings?'
Synonyms
- no ill will
- no resentment
- no grudges
- let bygones be bygones
- all good
Antonyms
- hard feelings
- resentment
- grudge
- animosity
- bitterness