get the message
Meaning
To understand what someone means (often an indirect hint) or to realize a situation; also to receive information.
Origin
From the literal idea of receiving a message, extended metaphorically to ‘receiving’ the intended meaning, especially when it’s implied rather than stated.
Notes
Often means ‘understand the hint/implication.’ In questions like “Got the message?” it can sound pointed or admonishing. Can also be literal: receive information.
Examples
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I stopped texting after a while because I could tell he didn’t get the message.
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When the boss canceled your project twice, you should have gotten the message.
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She didn’t say no outright, but I got the message and backed off.
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If they keep leaving you on read, maybe it’s time to get the message.
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After the third warning from the teacher, the class finally got the message.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Commonly used as “get the message” (fixed article) or in questions “Got the message?” / “Do you get the message?” Can take an object meaning the implied point: “get the message (that …)”. Tense changes: got/gets/getting.
Synonyms
- get the point
- catch on
- take the hint
- get it
- understand
Antonyms
- miss the point
- misunderstand
- fail to get the message