get a word in edgewise
Meaning
To manage to say something in a conversation despite constant interruptions or someone else talking nonstop.
Origin
From the idea of inserting a word “edgewise” (sideways) into a tight space—like squeezing something in where there’s almost no room—applied to conversations dominated by someone else.
Notes
Often implies frustration that someone dominates the conversation. Informal and commonly used in speech; usually in negative contexts (couldn’t/can’t get a word in edgewise).
Examples
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With everyone talking over each other, I couldn't get a word in edgewise during the meeting.
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She talks so fast that it's hard to get a word in edgewise when she's excited.
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I tried to explain, but he kept interrupting and I never got a word in edgewise.
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At the crowded dinner table, the kids were so loud that I couldn't get a word in edgewise.
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If you want to get a word in edgewise with the manager, you'll need to catch her between calls.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Common patterns: “can’t/couldn’t get a word in edgewise,” “hard to get a word in edgewise.” The phrase is fairly fixed; “a word” is typical, though “a word” may be replaced by “anything” in casual variation.
Synonyms
- get a word in
- get a word in sideways
- get a word in endwise
Antonyms
- get a chance to speak
- have the floor