fall on deaf ears
Meaning
To be ignored or not listened to, even though it is said clearly or repeatedly.
Origin
A metaphor from speaking to someone who is literally deaf: the words cannot be heard, so pleas or advice have no effect. It has long appeared in English writing, especially about ignored appeals.
Notes
Negative tone: implies the listener is unwilling to listen or doesnโt care. Often used for advice, warnings, requests, or complaints being ignored; common in news and formal contexts too.
Examples
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My warnings about the deadline fell on deaf ears, and the team missed it.
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She tried to apologize, but her words fell on deaf ears after what happened.
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The senatorโs calls for reform fell on deaf ears in the committee.
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Advice to cut back on spending fell on deaf ears while they kept shopping every weekend.
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His requests for help fell on deaf ears, so he had to handle the problem alone.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Usually used as a verb phrase: โ(something) falls/fell/will fall on deaf ears.โ Subject is the message (advice, warnings, pleas). Can be โto fall on deaf ears.โ Article is fixed: โdeaf ears.โ
Synonyms
- go unheeded
- be ignored
- be brushed off
- be dismissed
- be met with indifference
Antonyms
- be heard
- be listened to
- be taken to heart
- sink in
- get through