don’t put words in my mouth
Meaning
Don’t claim I said/thought something I didn’t; don’t misrepresent my meaning.
Origin
From the literal image of forcing words into someone’s mouth, i.e., speaking for them. Recorded in English for centuries and used to protest misquotation or unfair paraphrasing.
Notes
Used to object when someone misquotes you or assigns you an opinion. Often confrontational; soften with “Please don’t…” or “I didn’t say that.”
Examples
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Don’t put words in my mouth—I never said I wanted to quit.
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I’m not angry; don’t put words in my mouth.
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Don’t put words in my mouth and tell everyone I blamed you.
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If you’re going to quote me, be accurate—don’t put words in my mouth.
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Please don’t put words in my mouth; ask me what I actually mean.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Usually in the imperative: “Don’t put words in my mouth.” Can vary by tense/person: “He put words in my mouth,” “Stop putting words in my mouth.” Often followed by clarification (e.g., “I never said X.”).
Synonyms
- don’t misquote me
- don’t twist my words
- don’t put words into my mouth
- don’t misrepresent me
Antonyms
- take me at my word
- quote accurately