change of heart
Meaning
A shift in attitude, opinion, or intention, often from opposition to agreement or from one decision to another.
Origin
Originally referring to a genuine inner shift of the “heart” as the seat of feelings and will; used from early modern English onward to mean a reconsideration or reversal of attitude.
Notes
Neutral to mildly positive; implies reconsideration and reversal of a prior stance. Common in speech and writing. Often suggests new information or feelings prompted the switch.
Examples
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I was going to quit the project, but I had a change of heart after talking to my team.
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She said she didn’t want to come, then had a change of heart and showed up anyway.
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The mayor had a change of heart and decided to support the new housing plan.
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He had a change of heart at the last minute and apologized to his sister.
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If you have a change of heart, let me know and I’ll save you a seat.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Usually a noun phrase: “a change of heart.” Common patterns: “have a change of heart,” “undergo a change of heart,” “after a change of heart.” Article “a” is typically used.
Synonyms
- change your mind
- have second thoughts
- reconsider
- reverse your decision
- come around
Antonyms
- stick to your guns
- stand firm
- remain steadfast
- hold fast