caught between two stools
Meaning
Stuck between two choices or positions and failing to achieve either; trying to do both and ending up with neither.
Origin
From the literal image of trying to sit on two stools at once and falling between them. The proverb is recorded in English from at least the 14th–16th centuries and survives as a metaphor for indecision or divided aims.
Notes
Often implies a negative outcome (ending up with neither). Used for indecision or trying to satisfy two incompatible goals. Slightly proverbial in tone.
Examples
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Trying to keep both clients happy, she ended up caught between two stools and lost them both.
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The company was caught between two stools, wanting to cut costs but also insisting on premium quality.
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He was caught between two stools: stay in his hometown for family or move abroad for his career.
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By mixing comedy and horror without committing to either, the film felt caught between two stools.
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In arguing for compromise, the senator got caught between two stools and angered both sides.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Commonly used as a participial/adjectival phrase: “be caught between two stools.” Sometimes extended with a clause (“…and ended up…”). “Two stools” is usually fixed (not “chairs”).
Synonyms
- in two minds
- on the fence
- torn between
- between a rock and a hard place
Antonyms
- have the best of both worlds
- make up one’s mind
- choose a side