cat got your tongue
Meaning
Used to tease or ask why someone is suddenly silent or unable to speak, especially when they would normally talk or should answer.
Origin
Recorded from the late 19th century. The image is of a cat stealing the tongue, a humorous way to explain sudden silence; linked to older folk ideas about tongues being taken as punishment or by animals.
Notes
Teasing, mildly challenging tone; implies awkwardness, guilt, or being at a loss for words. Informal and can sound rude, so avoid in sensitive situations or with superiors.
Examples
-
What’s wrong—cat got your tongue?
-
I asked him about the missing money, and it was like the cat got his tongue.
-
Don’t just stare at me—cat got your tongue?
-
The moment the teacher called on her, the cat got her tongue.
-
You were so chatty earlier; has the cat got your tongue now?
Grammar & Usage Notes
Usually used as a question: “Cat got your tongue?” or “Has the cat got your tongue?” Pronouns can change (your/his/her). Often appears without an article; wording is fairly fixed.
Synonyms
- be tongue-tied
- be at a loss for words
- be speechless
- clam up
Antonyms
- speak up
- have a lot to say
- be outspoken