call a spade a spade
Meaning
To speak plainly and honestly about something, even if it sounds harsh; to name things as they really are.
Origin
Recorded in English from the 1500s, popularized by classical references (via Greek sources and later translations) meaning to “call things by their right names,” i.e., speak plainly.
Notes
Often positive (honest, direct), but can imply bluntness or rudeness. Use when stressing plain speaking rather than diplomacy.
Examples
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In our meeting, Jenna decided to call a spade a spade and said the project was failing.
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If we want to fix this relationship, we need to call a spade a spade and admit we’ve been avoiding the issue.
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He’s known for calling a spade a spade, even when the truth makes people uncomfortable.
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Let’s call a spade a spade: that “temporary solution” is just a patchwork that won’t last.
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The coach called a spade a spade and told the team their effort was unacceptable.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Fixed pattern: “call a spade a spade.” Can inflect: “called/calling a spade a spade.” Often used with “let’s” or “I’m just calling a spade a spade.” Article is typically “a,” not “the.”
Synonyms
- tell it like it is
- call it like you see it
- be frank
- be blunt
- be straightforward
Antonyms
- beat around the bush
- mince words
- sugarcoat
- speak euphemistically