bone of contention
Meaning
An issue or subject that causes disagreement or dispute between people or groups.
Origin
Metaphor from animals (or dogs) fighting over a bone; used since early modern English to denote something that causes dispute.
Notes
Slightly negative; denotes a disputed issue. Used in formal and informal contexts about disagreements. Avoid using it to attack individuals directly.
Examples
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The border issue has long been the main bone of contention between the two countries.
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A major bone of contention in the meeting was how to allocate the budget.
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Their parents' will became a bone of contention among the siblings.
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That clause has become a bone of contention in the contract negotiations.
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Instead of arguing over every little bone of contention, they should try to reach a compromise.
Grammar & Usage Notes
A noun phrase. Usually 'the bone of contention' or 'a bone of contention'. Typically singular (plural 'bones of contention' possible). Often used with 'is/was/are' or 'between' to name parties.
Synonyms
- sticking point
- point of contention
- bone to pick
- dispute
- contentious issue
- issue
Antonyms
- agreement
- consensus
- common ground
- point of agreement