be out of line
Meaning
To behave improperly or say/do something unacceptable, rude, or beyond what’s appropriate.
Origin
From the literal idea of being not in the proper “line” or position (out of alignment/order). By the 20th century it was commonly used figuratively for behavior that violates accepted limits or rules.
Notes
Often used to criticize behavior/comments as inappropriate. Can be direct (“You’re out of line”) or softened (“That was a bit out of line”).
Examples
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You were out of line to speak to your manager like that in front of everyone.
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I know I was out of line for making that joke, and I'm sorry.
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The ref said the player was out of line and gave him a warning.
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If I’m out of line, tell me, but I think we need to change our plan.
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She felt his comments were out of line and asked him to stop.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Common patterns: “be out of line,” “be (a bit/way) out of line,” “You’re out of line.” Can also mean “not in a queue” literally; figurative meaning depends on context.
Synonyms
- be inappropriate
- be out of bounds
- be out of order
- cross the line
- go too far
Antonyms
- be in line
- be appropriate
- be within bounds