in the doghouse
Meaning
In trouble or out of favor with someone (often a partner) because you did something wrong.
Origin
From the idea of a misbehaving dog being sent to its doghouse as punishment; by the early 20th century it was used humorously for a person temporarily “banished” or in disfavour, especially with a spouse.
Notes
Casual, often humorous. Commonly used about being in trouble with a spouse/partner, but can extend to bosses or groups. Implies temporary disfavor.
Examples
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I forgot our anniversary, so I'm in the doghouse with my wife this week.
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After he missed the deadline again, Mark was in the doghouse with his boss.
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If you tell Mom about the surprise party, you'll be in the doghouse for sure.
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She was in the doghouse after she dented her roommate’s car and didn’t say anything.
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I’ve been in the doghouse ever since I ate the last slice of cake without asking.
Grammar & Usage Notes
Usually used with the verb “be”: “be in the doghouse (with someone).” Can take “with + person” (“in the doghouse with my wife”). Sometimes “get out of the doghouse.” Generally fixed form.
Synonyms
- in trouble
- in hot water
- in bad books
- out of favor
Antonyms
- in someone’s good books
- in favor
- in good standing